there are good parts

Tuesday, September 9, 2008
being single sucks. it really does. but it has it's perks.

1. no waiting around for that call after some event is over. and when that event should be LONG over you are not sitting there wondering what happened to boo. 
2. no other females doing dumb female sh*t. 
3. no training. rarely do men come already equipped with how to treat me. being single saves me the frustration and disappointment. 
4. no justifying male friends. 
5. no arguments to f*ck up my whole day
6. no wondering if he's wandering

11 thought(s):

Obama Mama said...

I've been married for 5 years and we've been together for 7 years, and girl do I feel you. Shit he still not trained, I was just fussing about why he can't put his clothes in the dirty clothes hamper. This is a daily thing.

Therapeutic Musings said...

I think I can only come to your blog at night once I'm safely tucked away in bed. I read your list and was like, ohhh it's not like that then 5 minutes later what happens....Number 5.

Booo to you and to him, lol.

Brown Girl Gumbo said...

The arguments are the worst...dating or when you're married.

Bloggal said...

god girl, yes! i've been single a year and a half and though i did have my lonely moments, it was nice to not worry about any dude disappointing me. i'm already having second thoughts about a guy i'm kinda sorta seeing cause i know my jealous/bitchy/sensitive side kicks in when they don't act right...i don't like that side of me lol.

B-More BAP said...

Amen! I totally needed that today.

Product Junkie Diva said...

LOL @ # 3.
Being single can really really rock!

Don said...

You make a great point, but I am a jutifiable male friend!! Just that I am so far, far, away.....

T said...

Being single does NOT suck. It's actually quite awesome, contrary to popular belief, but let me hop off my soapbox...

Allow me to add to your list.

#8 When you leave a beer, chicken leg, piece of pizza, cake, pie, brownie or whatever somewhere in your kitchen... it'll be sitting right there when you get back.

antithesis said...

well look, don, you can just be my BF and eliminate all those issues....

Selly said...

I feel you girl :-)

luvinyounow said...

I sooooo agree with you. But yeah, being single does suck lol.